What My Father and I Don’t Talk About // Sixteen Writers Break the Silence

A follow-up to the wildly successfulWhat My Mother and I Dont Talk About,this moving and deeply relatable (Qian Julie Wang,New York Timesbestselling author ofBeautiful Country) collection of essays from sixteen notable writers breaks the silence on the complexand sometimes contentiousrelationships we have with our fathers.

What My Mother and I Dont Talk Aboutis a rare gem in the literary world. Both a viral sensation online and chosen byOprah Dailyas one of the best nonfiction books of the past two decades, it is an essential collection that dives into the topics we struggle to discuss with those who are meant to know and love us best.

With tenderness and aplomb in equal measure (Kirkus Reviews,starred review), this captivating follow-up tackles the intricate and challenging relationships we have with our dads. Andrew Altschul reflects on the life-altering experience of becoming a father and how it reshaped his view of his own dads parenting. Isle McElroy revisits weekends spent tagging along as their father fixed up the homes of his wealthier colleagues. Jaquira Daz delves into her fathers history in 1970s Williamsburg, uncovering the roots of their shared restlessness. Toms Q. Morn paints a raw portrait of an absentee father, while Kelly McMasters portrays her fathers love and dedication. Maurice Carlos Ruffin insightfully captures a father who communicated through his integrity rather than words. Jiordan Castle reveals how we can love our fathers from a distance and Susan Muaddi Darrajs Baba Peels Apples for Me explores the similar burdens placed on immigrant fathers and their eldest daughters.

With moments that are both humorous and deeply moving, these fearless essays, each one unputdownable, are likely to reassure readers that whatever relationship they have or don’t have with their own fathers is just right (Booklist).

Contributions by Michele Filgate, Andrew Altschul, Alex Marzano-Lesnevich, Maurice Carlos Ruffin, Dylan Landis, Jaquira Daz, Kelly McMasters, Isle McElroy, Susan Muaddi Darraj, Toms Q. Morn, Robin Reif, Heather Sellers, Jiordan Castle, Nayomi Munaweera, Joanna Rakoff, and Julie Buntin.

MicheleFilgateis the editor ofWhat My Mother and I Dont Talk AboutandWhat My Father and I Dont Talk About.Her writing hasappeared inLongreads,Poets & Writers,The Washington Post,Los Angeles Times,The Boston Globe,The Paris Review Daily,Tin House,Gulf Coast,Oprah Daily,and many other publications. She received her MFA in Fiction from NYU, where she was the recipient of the Stein Fellowship.

• Publisher: Simon & Schuster
• Publish Date: May 6, 2025
• Pages: 320
• Language: English
• Type: Hardcover
• EAN/UPC: 9781668049655
• Dimensions: 212.7 X 139.7 X 30.5 mm | 401.4 g
• BISAC Categories: Non-Fiction, Family & Parenting, Essays